parental quarrel

Some parents try not to quarrel in front of thier children. This is because as children, they tend to think the worst out if these situations. They get depressed or even blame themselves for it. When they grow older, they start to know how to think. Then, parents might take it out in the open. Even so, it can still be quite saddening. It makes someone feel frustrated because there is little that can be done. After each fight the atmosphere in the house turns eerie and silent.

I have a friend who voiced her concern over her parents once. She said something was amiss but she couldn't find out why. Her parents hid from her. I thought that was something acceptable. That's when she said,"I would rather have a knowlege about it. Its because they are not talking and that gives me a sense of insecure. I don't know what is going on. I make wild guesses."

While it is agreed that when couples fight it is as normal as drinking water, i think it really has no good impact on anyone at all.